{"id":485,"date":"2014-02-24T15:14:08","date_gmt":"2014-02-24T15:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/buyingfacilitation.com\/blog\/?p=485"},"modified":"2014-04-09T18:06:03","modified_gmt":"2014-04-09T18:06:03","slug":"what-type-of-relationship-manager-do-you-want-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyingfacilitation.com\/blog\/what-type-of-relationship-manager-do-you-want-to-be\/","title":{"rendered":"What type of Relationship Manager do you want to be?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The term Relationship Manager came into being when companies no longer wanted to call their sales reps \u2018Sellers\u2019. It\u2019s the acceptable term now, and means to denote a service provider who gives special attention to clients. But is it so special when everyone calls themselves a Relationship Manager regardless of the level of care they take? The level of follow up they provide? It\u2019s hard to tell prospects, \u201cWell, I\u2019m a really GOOD Relationship Manager, not like the other folks who just call themselves that. I REALLY mean it!\u201d Um\u2026 Right.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a thought: what if you really prove that you do care, and really do differentiate, yourself by making yourself competitive and unique. What if you became a facilitator that helps buyers manage the sorts of things they must handle outside a seller\u2019s purview \u2013 like actually helping buyers assemble all the right folks who should be involved in a project at the beginning to ensure buy-in and diminish resistance? or facilitating consensus around your solution implementation? or facilitating agreement from the department heads?<\/p>\n<p>Think about learning Buying Facilitation\u00ae. Not a sales skill, per se, but an actual facilitation skill that works with the behind-the-scenes issues buyers must address to get the buy-in to move forward (it\u2019s what you wait for when the sales cycle is so long\u2026but you aren\u2019t involved as its hidden). It\u2019s a facilitation skill that enables resistance-free consensus, buy-in, and implementations. It can be added to your sales skills to enhance the ways you serve your buyers.<\/p>\n<p>You can be a conventional Relationship Manager and compete with everyone else. 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